Sometimes we feel the deep desire to change our life however we feel stuck. Feeling stuck might be painful but it’s the sign that confirms that you need to take a new way. It means that it’s time for something new. Whatever the direction you want to take or the dream you deeply wish to realize, it starts with the decision to move on. Only what you allow will continue. That’s why decision is the very first step to transform your life. But you would surely tell me that’s not enough and you’re right. Decision has to be backed by your action to create something new.
To take action you have to understand what holds you back? Many reasons might be holding you back but from my experience it’s often fear. Fear is the block, fear is always the main block. The fear of failure, the fear of what people would say, the fear of being rejected etc could prevent your growth & fulfilment. The fear comes from the uncertainty of the result of your decision and actions. However you have to face that uncertainty would always be there. No one in the world who took the decision to make a bold life change had the certainty that he will be successful before he started to create a new life or a new project. If you do not take action, you can have the certainty you would stay stuck. Shift your perspective about uncertainty and shift your mindset. The only way to face uncertainty is massive action and if you fail, it’ll be experience. This is also another perspective about failure. Perspective is everything.
Don’t let your fears taking over your soul desire to leave a life you he(art). Always remember that only successful people decide. Take action & small risks every day to make real your desire to write your new story. It’s time.
In a nutshell: How to get unstuck?
Identify & understand the source of your block
Accept your block & decide to change the situation
Face your block with massive action
How did you overcome your fears to take a decision? Let me know with your comments.
Next thursday my blog post will be on commitment. Stay tuned.
You can do it! sarah